Setiap kali melihat orang yg nggak th sopan, darah kita seperti mendidih...lega rasanya kalau kita sudah menumpahkan kekesalan - biar kapok tuch, orang!
masih ada cara lebih manis dan lebih ampuh bwt si pelanggar etiket menyesal. resapi dech bbrp kalimat bijak tsb..
1. Pakai perasaan
"manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. if u hv that awareness, u hv good manners, no matter what fork u use. EMILY POST"
2. Hindari kalimat kasar
"treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to u- not because they are nice, but because u are. ANONIM"
3. Sok tua
"when u meet your antagonist, do everthing in a mild and agreeable manner. let your courage be as keen, but at the same time as polished, as your sword. RICHARD BRINSLEY SHERIDAN"
4. Diam adalah Emas
" it's not a slam at u when people are rude - it's a slam at the people they've met before. F.SCOTT FITZGERALD"
5. Diri sendiri dulu..
" when a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself. LOUIS NIZER"
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